Do you open the door for her? Do you bring her flowers “just because you love her”? If another man whistles at her or yells his ‘cat calls’, do you have words with him? Do you defend her? And here’s an important question; does she allow you to do these things?

I’m going to step out on the ledge today – I believe the Feminist Movement of the 70’s has ultimately killed femininity. Where have all the ladies gone? In the process, this has caused men to be confused, lost or just plain stupid. Now of course this is not an issue across the board, there are still girly girls out there, and there certainly are manly men, but both are a dying breed.

Then we wonder why our relationships don’t work. There is an old comedy stereotype, that the first cavemen would pick his bride by knocking her out his club. That’s because men think in a very serial way. Since the seventies men have had to alter their thinking. They've had to start thinking like a woman, and many just cannot deal with that very well. If you think that men and women are equal in all things, I encourage you to think again. I’m not saying that women are not as valuable as men, because they are; sometimes even more valuable. I’m not saying women should not be respected, because I my opinion, women are the source of honor in men and men should show that to women.

Ladies and gentlemen – the time has come to get back in touch with your authentic gender. Be the man. Be the woman – guys go dust off your club; you’ve not used it correctly in a long time.

Love and Bright blessings ~ Richard